Online Articles

Some people on the internet are nice to me and let me write for them:

Dating and Sex

What Does ‘Intentional’ Mean in Dating?” The Gospel Coalition, September 10, 2013.

Toward a Biblical Approach to Dating,” The Gospel Coalition, October 22, 2013.

Reframing Boundaries in Dating,” The Gospel Coalition, February 14, 2014.

Things It’s OK to Feel When You’re Single,” RELEVANT, February 3, 2015.

The Single Person’s Good Desire for Sex,” Desiring God, February 3, 2015.

Gender Issues

Talking About ‘Man-Boys,'” Desiring God, August 12, 2014

The Epidemic of Male Body Hatred,” Desiring God, October 15, 2014.

To Christian Men and Women Wearing Yoga Pants,” Christianity Today, February 3, 2015.

Millennial Issues

Older Men, Younger Men Need You,” Desiring God, 2015.

The Complicated Life of Lazy Boys,” Desiring God, March 24, 2015.

Put Laziness to Rest,” Desiring God, March 26, 2015.

When Your Twenties Are Darker Than You Expected,” Desiring God, April 20, 2015.

To The Sons and Daughters of Divorce,” Desiring God, May 7, 2015.

With a God Like Ours, Who Needs Frenemies?” June 12, 2015.

Too Busy to See We’re Blind,” Desiring God, July 14, 2015.

Did God Betray You?” Desiring God, August 4, 2015.

Difficult Emotions

Putting off Cynicism,” Desiring God, Jan. 22, 2014.

Autocorrect and Indwelling Sin,” Desiring God, July 24, 2014.

Hey, Jealousy,” Desiring God, September 2, 2014.

Do You Hate to Wait?” Desiring God, September 17, 2014.

How God Cares for Those Who Don’t,” Desiring God, September 13, 2014.

What Gossip Says About God,” Desiring God, September 25, 2014.

How God Embraces the Embarrassed,” Desiring God, October 1, 2014.

4 Things It’s Okay to Say When You’re Hurt,” The Gospel Coalition, July 28, 2015

Anxiety and the Rustic Aesthetic,” The Curator, July 29, 2014.


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  1. I just read your encouraging article ‘With a God like ours, who needs frenemies?’. I’ve been dealing with the competitiveness for a while. The ‘five faces of friendship’ were so helpful – will be checking out your other posts!

  2. I gleaned much comfort and hope from your wisdom-harvested article, “Do You Hate to Wait?” as you put to light God’s wise and loving lessons and good purposes during our seasons of “later.” I’m reminded of the Piper quote,”The strength of our patience hangs on our capacity to believe that God is up to something good for us in all our delays and detours.” Waiting is difficult, but His purposes are loving. Thanks for sharing, and keep writing!

  3. Thank you for your recent post “A Place to Start for Spiritually Stuck People”. After returning to the States following a few years living in a spiritually dark place, I’ve struggled with the transition back to the Western church. You articulated just what I’ve been feeling but unable to express. The Lord is using you and your writing. Keep going!

  4. Thanks for your latest article “Seven things to do after you look at pornography.”

  5. Just read your article posted on DG ‘Real Men Love Strong Women’ thanks so much for that, I am sure you have received many encouraging messages, but I thought I was prompted to add mine. The Lord has seen it good to keep me single, but allow my desire for marriage and children to remain (if not grow!), I have seen many women and men make relationship choices that seem to be based on a desire for fulfil a physical desire rather than to honour God. My heart breaks as I try to disciple women to choose Christ and battle the worlds lies.
    God has me helping with youth at my church, could you suggest ways to encourage these young men and even other men in the body of Christ in appropriate ways? How can I better honour my brothers and build them up so they might see the goodness of seeking Christ and a Christ centred woman? I don’t feel adequate but desire to lift up my brothers of all ages

  6. Keeping in the spirt, after stumbling on to your blog, I thank God for being so patient with me and for allowing His word to flow through you in my time of weakness.

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